On Sabbath you sing, march, say the prayer, and feel like you belong. Then Monday comes. School is another world: a noisy class, a scheduled test, a group that mocks anyone who believes, a teacher who may never have heard of a Pathfinder Club. And the question hits: can you be the same person there?
You can. Real faith isn't a weekend outfit. It's who you are when no one from the Club is watching. Daniel proved this in a strange land, far from home, surrounded by people who didn't think like him. And he stayed faithful without shouting, without fighting, without thinking he was better than anyone.
This guide is for you who want to live your faith from Monday to Friday without being arrogant and without hiding. It has practical steps, everyday examples, and ready-made lines for the hard conversations, starting with the Sabbath one.
Daniel at school: faithful in a strange land
Daniel was a teenager when he was taken to Babylon. Far from home, with no parents nearby, no church, no Club. He was in a place where everything was different: the food, the language, the customs, the gods. And the king wanted to train him to serve that system. Does it seem like a stretch to compare that with school? It isn't. You too spend your day in an environment that often doesn't think like you.
The Bible says what Daniel did: "But Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine" (Daniel 1:8, NIV). Notice two words: resolved and the firmness behind it. He decided before the moment of testing came. He didn't wait for the food in front of him to think about what he'd do. He had already decided in his heart.
This is the secret nobody tells you: the hard choices at school become easy when you decide at home, beforehand. If you've already resolved that you won't cheat, that you won't mock a classmate along with the crowd, that you'll keep the Sabbath, then when the moment comes you don't freeze. You just carry out what you already decided.
And see how Daniel did it: "he asked the chief official for permission". He didn't come in fighting or breaking rules. He asked with respect, proposed a test, and gave the official a way out so he wouldn't get in trouble. Firmness in the principle, kindness in the manner. That's exactly how you'll handle school.
The Sabbath and the scheduled test: what to do
This is the situation that squeezes a Pathfinder's heart the most: the test, the presentation, or the important game landed on Sabbath. Now what? First, breathe. This has a solution, and you're not the first to go through it. In Brazil there is a federal law (Law No. 13,796 of 2019) that guarantees the student the right, by giving notice beforehand and providing a justification, to be absent or to reschedule a test when the date falls on a day their religion reserves. The test can be given on another day or shift, or replaced with an assignment.
But the law alone doesn't solve it. What solves it is talking early, with respect, and with the attitude of someone who wants to cooperate, not someone looking for a fight. Don't wait until Friday afternoon to warn that you won't come on Saturday. Speak as soon as you know the date. Teachers like an organized student, not a last-minute surprise.
Bring the request in writing when you can. A short note, signed by you and by your parents or guardian, makes everything easier and shows seriousness. And offer the solution along with the problem: propose taking the test before, after, or an equivalent assignment. You make the teacher's life easier and almost always get a yes.
One important thing: keeping the Sabbath isn't laziness or an excuse to avoid studying. Quite the opposite. Those who keep the Sabbath out of conviction usually study more during the week precisely to keep up. Let that show in your behavior. If you want to understand better why Adventists keep this day, see why we keep the Sabbath.
Ready-made lines for talking with your teacher
Many people freeze not out of fear, but because they don't know how to start the sentence. So here are templates you can adapt in your own words. The tone is always the same: polite, direct, cooperative. No demanding tone.
To request rescheduling the test: "Excuse me, teacher. My family keeps the Sabbath out of religious conviction, so on that day I don't do school activities. I saw that the test landed on Saturday. There's a law that allows rescheduling in these cases. I can take the test earlier, or on another day, or would you prefer I do an assignment? Whatever works best for you."
For a group assignment scheduled on Saturday: "Guys, on Saturday I have a commitment from my religion and I can't. But I'm up for doing my part during the week and getting ahead on whatever I can. You can count on me, just not on that day." That way you don't leave the group hanging and you still show responsibility.
If the teacher says no or doesn't know the law: don't argue in front of the class. Say calmly: "I understand. Could we talk with the coordination together? That way I'll bring the document and we can sort it out properly." Get your parents and the school's administration involved. Those who keep the Sabbath have the right on their side; you just need to insist politely. If at any point it turns into mockery or humiliation, that's another matter, and your parents need to know.
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Jesus said: "You are the light of the world... In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven" (Matthew 5:14-16, NIV). Pay attention to what He told to shine: your good deeds. Not good words, not good sermons. Good deeds. People glorify God when they see what you do, not when they hear you boast about what you believe.
There's a huge difference between being light and being a spotlight. Light illuminates other people's path and you barely notice. A spotlight points at itself and blinds whoever comes near. The Pathfinder who keeps correcting everyone, who scowls at a swear word, who thinks they're superior because they don't do what the class does, that one isn't light. That one is a spotlight. And nobody likes a spotlight in their face.
Being light is something else. It's being the one who helps the classmate nobody wants in the group. It's lending your materials, sharing your snack, defending someone being humiliated. It's not cheating on the test even when everyone else does. It's keeping your word. People notice this, even if they say nothing. And one day someone comes and asks: why are you like this? Then, yes, you talk about your faith, because they asked.
The secret is: let your behavior raise the question, and let your words answer it. Never the other way around. Witness that starts with the mouth wears people out. Witness that starts with your life convinces. To go deeper into what sustains all of this from the inside, it's worth reading what faith is.
When people mock your faith
It will happen. Someone will laugh at your prayer before your snack. Someone will imitate you as a joke. They'll call you 'goody-goody', 'churchy', 'square'. And it hurts, especially at the age when being accepted seems like the most important thing in the world. So let's agree on one thing: you don't have to retaliate, but you also don't have to accept humiliation in silence as if you deserved it.
The first right reaction is not to react with anger. Those who mock often want precisely to see you explode. When you respond calmly, or even with good humor, you disarm the person. A smile and a "yeah, I am pretty square" takes all the fun out of the taunt. You show that it doesn't shake you, and a taunt that doesn't shake you loses its appeal fast.
Now, there's a line that's no longer a joke. When the mockery turns into repeated persecution, when they isolate you on purpose, insult you every day, mess with your things, or threaten you, that's bullying, and bullying doesn't get solved alone by swallowing it. Tell your parents and an adult at school. Telling isn't being weak or a snitch; it's being smart. If you want to understand this line better, see the guide on bullying made for families.
Remember one thing in the hard moments: you're not alone. Daniel was ridiculed, threatened, thrown into a lions' den, and God was with him. Your class may not understand now, but a firm character earns respect over time. Often the one who mocks you at 13 is the one who seeks you out to talk at 16, because they realized you're trustworthy.
Friendships: who you walk with matters
The Bible is honest about this: the company we keep shapes us. It's not that you should look down on someone who doesn't believe like you. Jesus was a friend to every kind of person and loved each one. The issue isn't who you get close to, it's who you let influence you. There's a difference between having friends who think differently and letting them decide who you are.
You can and should be a friend to people of all beliefs at school. Being kind, helping, spending time together, laughing together. That's being light. But your closest circle, those two or three people who pull you along in your decisions, those need to pull you up, not down. If your closest friends push you to cheat, lie, mock others, or abandon your values, those aren't helping you become who you want to be.
Here the Club is a gift. In the Unit you have people your age who believe what you believe, who also face the Sabbath test and mockery at school. That's your support group, your real crew. When the week gets hard, the Sabbath at the Club fills you up again. Don't let go of that. Friends who pray with you are worth gold.
And be that kind of friend to someone too. Maybe there's a classmate at school who is alone, suffering, with no one. Being light is getting close to them. You don't have to preach; you have to care. Sometimes the biggest sermon a teenager preaches is sitting next to the one nobody sits next to.
Let no one despise your youth
There's a lie that circles every teenager's mind: 'I'm too young to make a difference'. The Bible knocks that down at once. Paul wrote to the young Timothy: "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity" (1 Timothy 4:12, NIV). You're not too small to be an example. You are exactly the right person.
Notice the five areas Paul listed, because they're the same ones you're tested on at school. Speech: how you talk, whether you swear, whether you lie, whether you gossip. Conduct: how you act, whether you cheat, whether you keep your word. Love: how you treat those who are different or alone. Faith: whether you hold what you believe even under pressure. Purity: the choices you make with your body, with dating, with what you consume. An example proves itself there, in the concrete.
Being an example isn't being perfect. Timothy wasn't, you aren't, no one is. Being an example is being consistent, is failing and apologizing, is getting up again. A person of true faith isn't the one who never falls; it's the one who always gets back up in the same direction. The class respects a Pathfinder who is honest about their struggles far more than one who pretends to be a saint.
So don't wait until you're 18, 25, 40 years old to live your faith seriously. The school of your 12, 13, 14 years is your mission field now. The people you study with today may remember you your whole life as the one who was different in the right way. God isn't waiting for you to grow up. He's using you already, just as you are, from Monday to Friday.